Here’s a list of our favorite insights from the Communicating with Care Living Room Conversations we have offered online. Thanks go to Kathy Mitchell, a deeply appreciated volunteer host from Arlington, Texas, and the original author of the Communicating With Care conversation.
Kathy observes, “Talking with others about disagreeable issues is rarely easy, but avoiding those difficult conversations doesn’t help. We have to learn how to connect with others so we can solve our problems.” These insights are great for Living Room Conversations best practices–and best practices in life! Enjoy.
What fosters great conversations on touchy topics:
- Being aware of your contribution to the conversation; owning your actions.
- Honestly expressing your concerns without criticizing others (attacking the problem, not the person).
- Rather than dismissing someone’s account, saying instead, “I’ve never heard that before. I’m so sorry that happened to you.”
- Remembering that everyone is somebody’s loved one.
- Asking questions.
This is just a partial list. For the full list, write me back by replying to this email.
Beth G. Raps, PhD
Development Partner
PS: We have an upcoming Nuts and Bolts Host Training for you to join free online on Thursday, August 8. Click here to sign up. And our Mental Health Living Room Conversation is also offered Thursday, August 8. Click here to sign up for that.
PPS: Wonder how we do it all? Offer free host training and personal support to hosts; regular free online Living Room Conversations; brand-new Conversation Guides? Let me explain: your donations matter! The bright orange button below is our quiet way of asking if you’d like to give today. Every amount is valuable. Thank you!
