Written by:
Melissa Greenhagen
Assistant Director | Institute for the study of the Environment, Sustainability, and Energy | Northern Illinois University
I was introduced to the Living Room Conversations (LRC) model by a friend and colleague working in student engagement at [Northern Illinois University] NIU, and it sparked the idea of using it as a tool for connecting students—not just with the material, but with each other. Before bringing LRC into the classroom, I tested it with a group of friends from my book club. We selected a topic we likely wouldn’t have discussed otherwise, and our conversation took us to a deeper, more meaningful place than I anticipated. This experience assured me that bringing LRC into the classroom would be beneficial for students.
I first used LRC in the Introduction to Sustainable Food Systems course. In this class, I divided students into small groups for the semester, with each group taking turns leading discussions on topics such as food, health, unity, and sustainability. The students commented on how the conversations allowed them to connect with the subject matter in a more meaningful way. The ability to engage in dialogue with their peers, exchange perspectives, and even challenge each other’s thinking created a learning experience that resonated beyond textbooks and lectures.
Here are some reflections from the class:
- “Everyone was given a space where they could freely communicate and provide their own opinions without fear of being interrupted. Sometimes it is hard to find a space where you can openly say your opinions and ideas without someone interrupting or harshly criticizing you. The world seems to get more divided, and these environments are harder to find. The rules established by the website allowed everyone to express their thoughts and respond to others respectfully.”
- “Based on this conversation, a personal goal is to try to interact with more cultures. I haven’t had many interactions beyond my own culture, and I think this is a good step toward broadening my understanding of the world.”
- “It would be fun to do more of these conversations, especially with my brother who has very different views than me and the rest of my family.”
- “I learned that we think similarly about social equity despite having different viewpoints.”
- “I really enjoyed the living room conversations. The most meaningful thing I learned was other people’s opinions on topics I’m interested in. I found common ground with many classmates and realized we share many concerns. These conversations changed my perception of group members, as I feel I got to know them better. Most importantly, we discussed issues that affect everyone and raised awareness of climate and food issues.”
In 2024, we introduced the LRC model to a class of Environmental Science students. The main goal was to foster a sense of belonging, which is crucial for creating an environment where students feel comfortable and engaged in their learning. Through these conversations, students connected with the material in ways that felt more relevant and personal, leading them to find different ways to engage with the course content.
What has surprised me most is how easily students open up when given the space to engage in meaningful, respectful conversations. It’s not just about learning the material—LRC helps students process and internalize it in ways that foster empathy, build community, and encourage critical thinking. The conversations have had a significant impact, not only on students’ ability to engage with their studies but also on their interpersonal connections and growth as individuals. It’s rewarding to watch them step into leadership roles as they facilitate conversations and to see how their communication and interpersonal skills have developed.
After using LRC in the classroom, we wanted to expand the community-building potential for students in the Environmental Studies major. We held a small, in-person conversation with just four students, and they left the conversation feeling heard and valued, with a renewed sense of connection—not only to their peers but to the topics they were studying.
We see the potential of the LRC model to create opportunities for NIU students to engage in meaningful dialogue. In an era of growing social isolation and division, especially among young adults who often feel disconnected and disempowered, we hope to foster a sense of belonging and empowerment through these structured, respectful conversations on topics that matter to them. In using the LRC model in the newly proposed NIU Cohesion Project, students will be guided in exploring diverse perspectives, gaining communication skills, and developing empathy.
The NIU Cohesion Project will center around using Living Room Conversations as a core method for bringing students together to discuss issues that impact them both personally and academically. By engaging in these conversations, students will not only learn about the topics at hand but also about each other, fostering connections that help build a stronger, more cohesive campus community. We hope the long-term impact of the NIU Cohesion Project will be the creation of a lasting culture of dialogue and mutual understanding on campus, empowering students to navigate differences constructively and build relationships grounded in respect and empathy. Through these shared experiences, the project will help cultivate a more cohesive and compassionate campus environment, where students feel a deepened sense of connection and responsibility to one another.
For anyone looking to bring Living Room Conversations into their classroom, I would wholeheartedly encourage you to try it out. The first step is to create a safe, open space for your students to speak and listen to each other. It might feel daunting at first, but once you see the students’ engagement and the positive impact on their learning, it will be clear that this is an approach worth adopting. My advice would be to start small—perhaps with a few students—and allow the conversations to unfold naturally. Let your students lead the discussions and encourage them to share their personal experiences and ideas. Over time, you’ll witness a stronger sense of community within the classroom, and more meaningful, impactful learning outcomes.
In the end, Living Room Conversations aren’t just about fostering dialogue; they’re about creating connections—connections with each other, with the material, and with the broader world around us. The NIU Cohesion Project will bring these conversations into the center of campus life, giving students a powerful tool to understand each other, build relationships, and foster a stronger sense of belonging. As educators, it’s our role to provide the spaces where these connections can flourish. If you’re looking to build a more engaged, cohesive classroom, LRC is a tool worth exploring.
